When Meg Ireland uploaded a photo of her heavily pregnant belly onto her social media page she never for a second thought it would end up on a porn site.
Apparently there is a fetish called ‘preggophilia’ where people get off on photos of pregnant women. These sites contain hundreds of photos of naked pregnant bellies and most are stolen without the knowledge of the owner.
Meg was horrified to find 15 of her pregnancy photos that had made their way onto the preggophilia page for strangers to get turned on by. The innocent pictures she had posted were merely a way for her to share her pregnancy journey with friends and family.
“I see so many people upload their bump pics and now I just gasp and hope to god they don’t get into the hands of someone they shouldn’t,” she wrote on her Facebook page.
“We shouldn’t have to worry about people stealing our photos, but unfortunately it happens all the time.” Mel said “It never occurred to me that people would be totally into a tired, hormonal sweat ball. But they are, so please be aware when sharing pictures online of a growing baby belly.”
Meg was first alerted of her photo being on the site when a friend sent it through to her eight months ago.
“My bump was a pretty out there bump, many of my friends recognised it from a mile away,” she said. “I was initially taken aback but I didn’t think too much of it at first until I realised that more than one of my photos had been taken — about 15 all up.”
The person who stole Meg’s photo had posed as a mother herself in an online mother’s group page and went on to encourage mums to share their pregnancy pics. Mothers have been warned of this danger repeatedly and told to be wary of online groups. The Australian Multiple Birth Association (AMBA) said these pregnancy fetishists have been joining pregnancy groups under fake names and then downloading photos of expectant mothers for their own use. “People are posing as parents or expectant mums of twins or more and joining Facebook groups and sharing a photo of their pregnant belly and asking others to share theirs,” Ali Mountfield from AMBA said.
While Meg says people should have the freedom to share any photos they like on their personal social media pages others have blamed her for the incident. They say it’s her fault for putting such personal photos out for anyone to see and copy.
Unfortunately the sad truth is that once you post something on any platform, whether it’s Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, it can very easily be taken without your knowledge and used for any purpose. Which brings up the issue of protecting yourself and your family as much as you can. Try limiting the amount of photos of your children and don’t disclose private information like what school they go to or which sporting team they belong to.
Meg says since the incident she is much more wary of sharing photos online.
“It’s the internet, I know these sorts of things happen all the time, but I was more concerned about how they were used. I don’t share half as much as I did previously,” she said.
“I didn’t care that someone had screenshot my photo to show someone, it’s what they did with my photos that made me physically sick in my stomach,” Meg explained.
Photos courtesy of Instagram.